Using the Law of Attraction for my soulmate and dream marriage
Question: How can I apply the Law of Attraction to my dream marriage; for getting my soul mate husband with all the qualities I wish he has, like a loving nature, financial stability, commitment & love?
Also, after marriage I wish to settle in prosperous country, so how do I create that in my thoughts? Thank you.
Real Life LoA Answer: Thank you for writing. You ask a big question, but let me attempt to answer it in a way that is useful to you right away, so you can get started on the process!
From the Law of Attraction perspective, attracting a dream marriage or soul mate is actually a process of aligning with the real truth of who YOU really are. What is required is for YOU to fall in love with who YOU really are, as you are now, and to be so happy with who you are, that the right partner for you is naturally and magnetically pulled toward you. This happens because your energy and his energy are both aligned toward the same things.
He is probably looking for someone who is happy, confident, kind, interested in life, nurturing, funny, bright, etc., and the more time you spend exuding those qualities for yourself (even before you meet him) the faster he can FEEL his way toward you and find you! The more YOU are aware of, and are focusing on YOUR own best qualities, the faster the Universe can bring you together with all of the best people to travel on the road of your dreams with you.
Source Energy/God/The Universe already knows what your dreams are and what your heart most wants. Your dreams and desires are in your heart because they are the very dreams that God/Source Energy (your own Higher Self) has FOR you! You are already on the perfect path toward your dreams, you cannot not be - the only thing missing sometimes is your own belief that it IS really happening!
Source Energy has only 3 possible answers to ANY request:
1) Yes! Here it is, now.
2) Yes, but not right this minute, not just yet.
3) Yes, but I have something even better in mind for you!
So, you are already attracting the soul mate of your dreams as well as the creative ideas and inspiration for how you can settle wherever you want to. Your own action is the only thing that is missing...
Start doing anything you can to immerse yourself in your dreams becoming your reality. Read about them, research them, imagine yourself already living that reality, spend an hour or two writing down the details of a typical day (of your desired reality) AS IF it were already true now, etc. Put yourself there in your mind, and feel how good it feels. Then, start to look for ways that YOU could make it happen - don't wait for your man to do it for you, it may be that your man is already waiting for you in your new homeland?
In the meantime start to create a list of qualities that you really like and appreciate about the men you know - not just the ones who could be relationship material, but any man you know. (It does not matter if you would never be in a relationship with that man, he is only serving as an inspiration for this exercise - it is not about the specific person, just about examples of qualities that you admire.)
Beginning with a man that you think of most romantically, write down a list of qualities that you most admire about him, and WHY you like/appreciate that quality so much. Then, add to the list using the best qualities of some of the other men you know as inspiration. For example:
1) He is handsome and attractive to me
Why do I like that: Because I enjoy feeling attracted to my man, I like to smile when I see him, I love to feel beautiful when he looks at me, I enjoy feeling my heart flutter a little when he walks in the room
2) He is kind and considerate
Why do I like that: I appreciate that he is gentle with others, it makes me feel special when he thinks of me and does nice things for me, I am proud of him when he treats others with respect, I feel supported and cared for when he thinks about my feelings
3) He is really funny, I like his sense of humor
Why do I like that: I love to laugh, I feel happy, healthy, and joyful when I am laughing with my man. I think a good sense of humor is a mark of intelligence, and I love that he is so smart, but mostly, I really love to laugh...
4) He has a really good job that he enjoys
Why do I like that: I like to have a great deal of private time to myself, I am glad that he is away at work for much of the day, so I can do my own thing. I like to have time to spend with my own friends, and I can because he is working so often.
Or something like this. Make your own list, using your own examples and as much detail as you can. Get into the habit of noticing qualities you like about ANY man you see, and add those new qualities to the list of what you appreciate, and why.
When you do this exercise, you will be creating an overall picture, a composite of the kind of man that your heart TRULY dreams about, the type of man that your Inner Being most wants to attract into your life. When you think about the qualities you admire, and why you enjoy those qualities, you will never feel sad, because you are not thinking about one specific person. You are thinking about what you love, and why, from your own heart's perspective, and that will always feel nice.
Then, get yourself out into life as much as possible. Go to social events, take classes, attend support groups or book clubs, or anything that kinds your mind active and expanding - that is how to attract the ideas which will lead you to the 'stepping stones' toward your dreams. Do anything you can do to improve yourself and become the version of you that YOU most want to be.
The purpose of life is to feel the joy of creating your dreams for yourself. You are attracting harmonious components and partners along the way, but almost all of it will emerge due to your own inspired action first!
Blessings to you along the journey!