The basic How To Law of Attraction steps are fairly simple... However, completely understanding them, remembering to implement them in real life situations, being able to call upon the most helpful tool while experiencing stressful real world circumstances, and then being able to ALLOW what you DO wish to be attracting instead, by releasing resistance and 'letting go' of "what is", takes considerably more practice!
Using How To Law of Attraction tools in Real Life requires that we develop the new HABIT of continually bringing our OWN thoughts and attention back around to what we DO want and why we want it DESPITE the conditions around us!!
In addition to the basic LoA steps above, there are also a number of essential tools, skills and practices that will result in a life experience that is more in keeping with your dreams of how it should be! Life really is supposed to be fun - and it CAN be if you learn to follow your own guidance and attract what you most desire!
Below you will find the same basic How To Law of Attraction steps as were listed just above, but with the addition of many of the supportive tools, practices, and techniques that can be used to strengthen and deepen one's ability to use LoA successfully for each step. Please note that at this point, only a few of the processes have an entire page devoted to them (as indicated by a blue link), but, for those that do not (yet) have their own page, I welcome requests for more explanation and ALL How To Law of Attraction questions!
As practiced in the Teachings of Abraham, Law of Attraction has three major phases of Attraction: ASK, ALIGN, ALLOW... But, though clever, it is deceptively over-simplified - the following steps represent an expansion and the How To Law of Attraction tools that make the "3 A's of Attraction" DO-able in Real Life!
1. Stop - Interrupt the chaos or emotion of the moment
There are MANY ways to stop, or, as taught in the Abraham Law of Attraction workshops, to "let go of the oars":
2. Breathe - take a consciously deep breath
A "cosmic refresh" button:
3. Decide what you DO WANT to be experiencing right now
This is the ASK part of the Attraction process:
4. Mentally list 3-5 reasons WHY you would LIKE the new experience better
Identifying WHY you want any new experience is the beginning of the ALIGN part of the Attraction process; aligning your conscious and subconscious desires with the feel good energy of believing it IS possible!:
5. Think about a new scenario for the current situation that would be REALLY NICE if it worked out that way... Take a brief moment to dream a little (or a lot) and imagine it ALL working out really well!
Techniques to amplify and add detail:
SPECIAL NOTE: If these "How To Law of Attraction" practices are not working for you, or if "imagining it all working out really well" is a challenge to believe, there are some other subconscious forces at work; most likely resistance, competing intentions, or lack of belief in oneself... Practices which can help:
6. Practice releasing resistance and letting go of attention to "what is" by doing your best to start to focus on other subjects that ARE working (even a little bit) in your life right now...
This step is the essence of the ALLOW part of the Attraction process:
There are also other techniques which are not specific to LoA, but which are very helpful in releasing attachment to "what is" and letting go of resistance (The Work of Byron Katie, EFT, Theta Healing, just to name a few!)
This page is a comprehensive list of How To Law of Attraction tools and exercises which can be used in Real Life situations. However, it will still be some time before each one of the processes has it's own descriptive page. Until then, I welcome requests for more explanation and ALL Law of Attraction questions. I will add content as quickly as possible, but always give priority to specific requests!
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