Help for my daughter's health with Law of Attraction
Question: My daughter has a mark on her head since her birth. She is 2 years old now. It is called hemangioma. I'm trying to heal her completely from that condition. But I have been trying to use this Law of Attraction for more than a year. Still now, I dont see any progress on the mark leaving her. How ever much I stay positive and grateful, I still don't see anything change. Please help me.
Real Life LoA Answer: Hello,
I'm so sorry to hear that your little girl has a health concern that is worrisome for you. Although I am not a doctor, and do not give medical advice, I did do a little bit of research on hemangiomas for you, and the other readers of this page, to help answer your question. According to the Mayo Clinic, it is:
"A hemangioma (he-man-jee-O-muh) is a birthmark that most commonly appears as a rubbery, bright red nodule of extra blood vessels in the skin.
Sometimes called a strawberry mark, a hemangioma grows during the first year of life, and then recedes over time. A child who had a hemangioma during infancy usually has little visible trace of the growth by age 10.
A hemangioma can occur anywhere on the body, but most commonly appears on the face, scalp, chest or back. Treatment of a hemangioma usually isn't needed, unless the nodule interferes with vision or breathing."
That seems to be good news, that in children they often simply clear up on their own. For more medical information than that, you will have to consult a doctor about your specific case.
However, from a Law of Attraction perspective, there are a few things going on which deter the progress you'd like to make:
1) It is impossible to create anything in someone else's reality, even for your child.
Your daughter came into this world with her own soul, her own path, her own free will, her own wisdom and intelligence, her own guidance, and her own soul intentions for the journey of her life. As such, her soul may have a reason for manifesting such an experience to go through, learn from, and transcend.
We will never know why, from a human perspective, any such things happen, but each and every individual has their own "curriculum" in this grand school of life. She may have her hemangioma for some reason that will result in her becoming a much more beautiful, resourceful, intelligent, creative, and magnificent person than she might have done without it.
But, because she has it, it is part of her journey, no matter how you and your family decide to proceed medically.
2) Trying to make something, anything, go away by focusing on it's absence, is actually doing the exact opposite of what you are really desiring. It is impossible to focus on something not being there, without inadvertently focusing on the thing itself (because you have to think of it to try to imagine it not there.) ...And that, of course, never works.
It's better to shift your focus entirely, onto anything else, that you can flow your love and adoration toward -- use it as a reminder to really appreciate her other qualities. Each time you notice the hemangioma, deliberately choose to shift your thoughts onto how beautiful her smile is, how her eyes light up when she sees you, how wonderful the sound of her laugh is, how talented, or creative, or artistic she is, how much fun she is to play and cuddle with.
Make sure she KNOWS, by how YOU think of her, that she is SO MUCH MORE than a red spot on her skin.
3) Now, this one may sound REALLY counter-logical, but if you really, really, really want a condition to shift, learn to LOVE it the way it is right now.
Look for the gifts it is bringing to you and your daughter's life (even if those gifts are not coming in the way you'd hoped.) Look for the benefits that might come out of the situation. Look for how it is bringing you closer together (or maybe away from someone who isn't very uplifting anyway?) Look for how it is enabling you to connect with other people in a positive way. Look to find it's beauty, and see if you can to learn to love it while it's here.
Where there is love, only more love can follow, and more love always brings gifts. So, it may not change the way you once hoped or imagined, but if you tune to the love, then you will change, and that will shift your whole reality.
Blessings of love to you, and to your daughter, and to all who are touched by her beautiful Spirit in this world!