Using Law of Attraction on existing relationships
(South Africa)
Question: I have read that the Law of Attraction will help you find your perfect partner and relationship, I would just like to know if works on existing relationships? I don't want to meet anyone new but would like to work on my current relationship. Can I use the Law of Attraction for that? Thanks for taking the time to answer my question.
Real Life LoA Answer: Yes! Actually the Law of Attraction works even better on a relationship you are already in (most of the time!) When things are going fairly well in your relationship, and you have a sense of a good foundation, in which you know that you love/care for the person you are with, you can easily build upon that, and expand it to be better and better. If it is the case that the relationship you are in is not going well, you can still use the Law of Attraction (in the same ways I will mention below) to repair it somewhat, but it can be difficult.
I will assume that your relationship is mostly good, and you want to attract even more love, more intimacy, more fun, more excitement, more respect, and more joy with the person you are currently involved with.
The best thing you can do, at any time, is to make a list of at least 25 qualities you genuinely admire, enjoy, like, love or appreciate about your partner - their positive aspects. This is a great thing to do when you are feeling good about the person, and even a really good thing to do if you are a little cross, or if your partner is annoying you a little.
(**Note** Don't try to make a list of positive aspects if you are really angry, shift your focus first by disengaging yourself from thinking about the anger and go do something completely unrelated, that you enjoy - like taking a walk, have a bath, read a good book, bake - something fun for you. Then try the positive qualities exercise after you have cooled off a little.)
What this exercise does is shift your focus on to the best qualities the other person has, which is how your own Inner Being (soul/heart) always sees them, so you are really lining up with YOU (and the Law of Attraction) when you focus on the good qualities in another person.
Another thing you can do is make lists of all the things you currently enjoy doing together, and gather up some very detailed memories of wonderful times you have had together. You can even go so far as to put together a scrapbook to really capture the details! Remembering and savoring as many thoughts and memories as you can from wonderful past experiences will attract future experiences with the same feelings.
The more time you spend with your mind on the good things around you, the things you appreciate, love, and enjoy, the more the Law of Attraction and the Universe can know what it is that you DO like, and bring you MORE of that - whether it is about people, situations, experiences, or feelings.
Another valuable habit to get into when it comes to relationships is to practice giving your partner the benefit of the doubt (at least in your own mind.) When you have the chance, try to identify why any mistake made may truly be a mistake, and/or why there may have been good intentions at an outset rather than character flaws to blame for the things that do go wrong.
There are plenty more ways to magnify and enrich an existing relationship, but I want to get this out to you as soon as possible. If there is anything more specific you would like support with, please feel free to write again, and I will do my best to answer. Until then, blessings, love and light to you as you create the relationship of your dreams with your partner!
