A reader recently contributed this story on how she used words of appreciation (focusing on positive aspects and positive thought) to attract success in her dating life with Law of Attraction… This story really demonstrates the power of positive thinking when combined with LoA:
“I was dating a guy (and I say "dating" loosely because we'd gone out on 5 or 6 dates over the course of a couple of months) and I liked him OK, but I knew he wasn't the one...
So one day I was trying to get downstream about him and the relationship (since he had bailed out on me for New Years Eve at the last minute), when at the end, I suddenly felt compelled to list his positive aspects (words of appreciation about him)!
Here is the process I wrote out at the time (the result is at the end...)
First, I asked myself: “What do I really want and WHY?”
I want to be with the right man for me because I want to be in LOVE and be super happy with my guy and then focus on HIS positive aspects (words of appreciation), because I am happiest when I am focused on my appreciation of things!
…I want to be happy and appreciative of the man of my dreams, the way I was when I was with my last boyfriend!
So I finally took the time to make a list of positive aspects (focusing on words of appreciation) for the guy I was currently “dating”, so that I could at least be happy in my words of appreciation for him until the right man for me came along!
His Positive Aspects:
So, I felt A LOT better by focusing on my words of appreciation about him... He actually even called the next day. We hung out together one more time (but that was REALLY it, and then it was over in my head.) And then, the very NEXT DAY, I met someone else who was even MORE of the things on my list...
I then made a list of HIS positive aspects (words of appreciation about the new guy) and focused on them, until he (sort of) sorted himself out of my life (he still REALLY wants to see me, but I'm not interested enough to pursue it.)
Then, shortly after that, I met ANOTHER guy who has even MORE of the desired qualities on my list, and the list of positive aspects (words of appreciation) I did for HIM already numbers in the 50's!!
He is now my new boyfriend, and may turn out to be my Vibrational Escrow man (the man who is already my partner in the Vibrational world reality – the future that is now in the process of becoming!)
Basically, I've made a list of every guy's positive aspects, and I find that successive men have all of them, and then more, each time...
And, if that first guy hadn’t bailed, I might not have done that work (creating all those lists of words of appreciation and positive aspects) – and now I have plenty of men here and there, and will DEFINITELY have a good year with men despite not getting a kiss on New Years Eve…
…I guess I should thank him for bailing on me! LOL!”
This story illustrates the power of positive thinking and positive thought, because it was the very act of focusing on positive aspects (words of appreciation) that caused the Law of Attraction to bring her successively better and better dating prospects!
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